MY MOTHER'S HIGH FASHION BACKGROUND CONTINUED

I have fond memories of my own experiences with the Pierre Balmain boutique when I would come to Paris and visit my Mom at work after school once I had left Maisons Laffitte and was living in Paris at 11 rue Louis le Grand. I remember being invited to attend the Spring or Fall collections on the first floor where my Mom would reserve a seat for me. All the fashion photographers and the media people were invited as well as some special dignitaries and regular clients. It was exciting to be part of that crowd. I was fascinated by the beauty of some top models and how they walked down the runway, showing off the new collection and hearing the many ''Ohs.. " from the crowd. There were two top models I particularly liked the most, who were so kind to me and who would take the time to speak to Sylviane's daughter and make a big fuss over me once the show was over. They also brought me dolls from many countries, and that's how my famous doll collection got started. The whole Balmain boutique team were very close and would often go on vacations as a group.

Across the street was Nina Ricci Boutique where my Mom's friend Madeleine Martin was working and who supplied us with perfume and cosmetics for many years.  Even after coming to the States, I had a full year or two of Nina Ricci and Balmain perfumes I was lucky to use on a regular basis as well as sharing them with people around me . I did not realize how lucky I had been till I ran out of them after a few years. My favorite P. Balmain's perfume was Citronnelle with a lemon flavor that I am still today trying to find to match but unable to find and my Mom's favorite was Vent Vert.

Being raised with that fashion background, it's natural for me to follow in the footsteps of my French fashion heritage on a daily basis. For me everything has to match perfectly, even accessories..I do change purses to match my coat, scarf, hat or gloves, carefully select matching jewelry ( earrings and so on) . People often stop me on the street or at the store to compliment me on my outfits. Last week, when shopping at Costco, an elegant older gentleman approached me and said how much he liked my hat. I don't remember how many times I get the same treatment at the grocery store, from customers or the cashiers. During our 6 and a half year Inner City Mission, the Harvard Ward members nicknamed me "The Hat Lady", and after a while I noticed that a few of them started wearing hats!

I would like to conclude this "memory lane account" on Pierre Balmain by mentioning my sweet great aunt Tata who had such a huge impact on our lives.

Simone Paris was Mamy's sister who lived with her mother, Papy and myself in Maisons Laffitte. Tata was not lucky in love and soon divorced her husband Aime Mignon from Bourges. I believe he was a printer by trade. She moved in with her mother and sister when leaving Aime. Both sisters worked for Cristobal Balenciaga, a native of Spain, who was a leading high fashion designer, a contemporary of Pierre Balmain, Christian Dior and Chanel. Both sisters had a deep admiration for that man and were privileged to work for him. They absolutely loved and cherished those many years of hard work and did not mind a minute the long commute time of their daily life.

M. Balmain was well aware that my Mom was a great admirer of Balenciaga and that she would sometimes wear a Balenciaga outfit her aunt made for her, how my Mom got around that, I still wonder!

Tata was the fairy queen of sewing. She made so many of our clothes (my Mom's and mine) by hand as well as using her sewing machine, an old manual foot controlled Singer sewing machine, in the corner of her bedroom. She really had the dexterity, the fingers of a magician and could turn anything she touched into a work of art. So many fine stitches that would dissolve in the fabric, becoming invisible. I remember my sewing classes ou cours de couture in my elementary school, rue Saint Nicolas and how hard I tried to do my best for my homework, how big my stitches were compared to hers.

I can't count all the suits, dresses, skirts and coats or redingotes or double breasted coats she made for me when growing up and how I would spend time trying on everything she made in front of the large mirror of her wardrobe in our bedroom of Maisons-Laffitte. I remember waking up on Christmas morning and finding a dozen outfits for one of my favorite dolls, Wendy and Florence, laid out on the bedspread, made out of fabric remnants brought home from work. This went on and on ... little did I know that, some day she would lose one of her favorite customers who would move very far away, across the ocean and only keep her niece, my Mom, as a regular customer until Tata died of leukemia and bone cancer in 1989 . Today I still wear her navy blue coat (Chanel style) for church and Mamy's brown coat as well (Chanel style) since Tata went to work for Chanel after Cristobal Balenciaga passed away in 1972. Her whole world was La Couture and her two nieces, my Mom and I. She had nothing else and often sacrificed herself for us. When our own children were very young, she made their clothes. Tata made my wedding dress. I sent her the pattern and she made it in a record time and it arrived just one day before our wedding!! My sweet husband made the veil himself and did a great job. Oh, how I miss Tata and how much I look forward to seeing her again after I go through the veil! I bet she is still busy using her skills on the other side.

When I first came to America, I had a dear friend from Denmark who taught me how to sew. So I made some two piece suits and several long dresses that were fashionable in those days. I enjoyed shopping at the fabric store, choosing fabrics, patterns and sewing with my own sewing machine. It went on for quite a few years and I even made clothes for my children when they were toddlers. But as the family grew bigger, I had less and less time to do it and I completely dropped out of sewing. Our own daughter, Mary Catherine, really inherited the wonderful talent of our cherished Tata who would be very proud of her if she was here. I am pleasantly surprised to discover half a dozen or so of my female ancestors on both sides of my family who were  seamstresses or in the fashion business .. There is definitely something in our DNA ! Not only do we inherit some physical attributes from our ancestors but also some talents and even thought processes. We are all linked together.

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